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Research that shows  outdoor play prepares kids for achievement in STEM , develops executive function and many other life skills.  It's catching on... The Perks of a Play-in-the-Mud Educational Philosophy It's very popular in Scandinavia and Europe.  Here's what an American observed: Running Free in Germany's Outdoor Preschools EXTRA Can Spending Time In Nature Improve Executive Function? A four minute documentary where Dr. Lakisha Reid explains exactly what is developing as children play. BOOK DISCUSSION This week of September 30, we will discuss Chapter 6, 7 & 8 from the book,  How To Raise An Adult   by Julie Lythcott-Haims. SF EVENT Big Truck Day in McLaren Park , Wednesday, October 2, 10-noon

If you are reading this article, your kid probably doesn't need preschool , Slate.com calls it the Early Education Racket.  But if parents need time without their children, please read on.  It is often assumed children need direct instruction and academics to become kindergarten ready, but research has shown something different--play is most important.  Kids in academic preschools do not have advantages over those in play based preschools, it shows the opposite.  L ess structured time to play can build more executive function . Kids who went to play based preschools tend to like school more, are less stressed about school, are more creative, and perform better academically and socially. Why kids deserve a preschool that lets them play The main ways to get your kids ready for school is to 1) Have conversations with your kids (this also helps with attachment) 2) Read books with them regularly, and 3) give them time to PLAY.  Really, you don't even need to enro...

The American Pediatrics Association put out a clinical paper titled " The Importance of Play in Promoting Healthy Child Development and Maintaining Strong Parent-Child Bonds " extolling the purpose in playing.  Physically, emotionally, mentally, academically and relationally, play develops these areas in children. It is essential for children. But w hat exactly does it mean to play?  And what can I do as a parent to get my children to play?  A parent educator writes this essay to explain this and more. What is Play? While your child is playing, consider having them go outside into nature. Why Kids Need To Spend Time In Nature CONSIDER THIS How did you play as a child? How can you incorporate more play into your family? BOOK DISCUSSION This week of September 16, we will discuss Chapter 2 & 3 from the book,  How To Raise An Adult   by Julie Lythcott-Haims.  As you read, consider these ideas: -Was there a story, statistic, real life example ...

Registration has begun!   Couples Parenting Workshop  on Sunday, September 15:  Creating a Family Vision and Mission   Read more here , or scroll down for more information. Spoil your kids with physical affection.  Study after study show that this can have positive long term effects. According to the  Grant Study , the most expensive and encompassing 75 year longevity study, the 75 year olds who had "life satisfaction" and happy had one thing in common:  they felt closeness with their parent.  The decades old idea that you can spoil a child with affection is to be ignored (although you can spoil your child with other things).  Be liberal with those hugs and kisses.  (It's good for adults too.) How a Parent's Affection Shapes the Child's Happiness for Life There is no such thing as being a perfect parent.  Some research says you just have to be "perfect" 20-30% of the time.  Thats good enough... When Good Enough Outclass...