Parenting With Teacher Nancy

Tantrums are not as mysterious as we thought.  Scientists have done studies by attaching monitors on  to the shirts of children find out more.  The stages of a tantrum, and what should or shouldn't do are in the articles. Remember, the most important practice you can have as a parent is to stay calm .   (Discussion for the week of October 1) What's Behind a Temper Tantrum?  Scientists Deconstruct the Screams This Is What's Happening In Your Kids' Brain When They Throw A Tantrum DO YOU NEED A DATE NIGHT? A unique and productive night out...   Creating a Vision and Mission Couples Workshop! Find out more here . EXTRAS Talked Out of Tantrums:  How baby babbling leads to good behavior    (Highlights from the article) Reading to your kids may help keep them from throwing fits, suggests a new study in Early  Childhood  Research Quarterly. Researchers measured toddlers' spoken vocabulary and  self-regulation , or ability to control behavior and emotions. They

Some researchers believe that Emotional Intelligence(EI) or Emotional Quotient (EQ) is more important than IQ.  EQ testing has has not replaced IQ testing, but other tests show that children and adults who have a high EQ are happier, are more efficient and effective as students and employees, have longer lasting relationships, and are physically healthier.   To help us, and our children build their EQ, we should become better Emotional Coaches.  For some, it is difficult to master Emotional Coaching, it takes practice, sometimes years of it.  If we practice Emotion Coaching with our children, even with other adults in our lives such as partners, co-workers, and friends, this will help strengthen those relationships as well.   (Discussion for the week of September 24) Emotion Coaching While Your Child Is Upset A Feelings Chart Descriptive Emotions Wheel- to build vocabulary EXTRA I was encouraged to share this link again, since it seemed helpful for some... Here's  a few

According to Christine Carter of the Greater Good Science Center based at UC Berkeley ,   Emotional Coaching  is " One of the most important parent practices in the history of the universe . " The book,  Raising an Emotionally Intelligent Child  by John Gottman, is the source of this meaningful practice.  I've read it a couple times, it's worth the time if you have it.  Emotion Coaching is helpful in every kind of relationship, not just as a parent, but as a partner, co-worker, friend and other adult relationships.  Try this practice with them, and not just with your kids. This article is to get us started. An Introduction to Emotion Coaching TRY THIS Which way of parenting to you gravitate to?  What style of parent were your parents? Did you try more awareness in yours and other's feelings?  How did that go? EXTRA In case you didn't know which parenting style is yours, here's a quiz:  What Style Of Parent Are You? If you want to geek out on

Research methods of the brain have improved tremendously over the last couple of decades, which can explain much more about child and human development than ever before.  All the affection you are giving your child, will help form the neural connections that build a strong foundation for the developing brain.  Here are some basics about this fascinating organ. Understanding Brain Development in Young Children EXTRAS Some short videos for better understanding from Harvard's Center on the Developing Child: Three Core Concepts in Early Development What is the connection between the brain and how children learn? The organization, The Mind In The Making put together this article about Early Learning.   The Science of Early Learning  BOOK DISCUSSION This semester's book is  Alison Gopnik's, The Gardener and the Carpenter .    We will begin our book discussion this week of September 10.  Please read the Introduction : The Parent Paradoxes, and Chapter 1 : Against Par