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Soft Skills and Teaching Them To Our Children

Last week we looked at the top 10 parenting skills.  The top three, the most important, have nothing to do with your child: 1) Love and Affection 2) Stress Management 3)Relationship Skills.  If you practice these skills you  are able to use your soft skills.  When you use your soft skills at home it models and teaches your child how to incorporate them into their life. Some soft skills are self-control, teamwork, emotional intelligence, kindness, work ethic, adaptability/flexibility and grit...  Research shows learning soft skills in the home and at a young age can have important outcomes later in life: children perform well in school and in their careers, have healthy and supportive relationships, and make more money.  In the meanwhile, they may experience "helper's highs" and feel better about themselves, others, and their place in this world.

Stop Trying to Raise Successful Kids and Start Raising Kind Ones

Learning Soft Skills In Childhood Can Prevent Harder Problems Later

BOOK DISCUSSION
This week of February 3, we will discuss the Introduction of Peaceful Parents, Happy Kids by Laura Markham. We will be using this discussion guide (first link on top) to guide our discussion.  Please use this as a worksheet as you read.  The next week of February 10, we will discuss Part 1: Regulating Yourself.


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