Here is another helpful resource from KidPower on aggression:
Managing Aggressive Behavior
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Using Positive Language helps guide children more clearly with a deeper understanding and it helps build their vocabulary. Try to limit use of negative language by using other words besides "Don't" and "No."
Instead of saying... SAY
Don't stand on the chair... Chairs are for sitting
Don't throw the sand... Build in the sand
Don't play with the stick... Make patterns in the dirt with the stick
Don't yell... Talk softly
Don't drip on the floor... Put your towel around the paintbrushes
Don't leave your milk... Drink your milk
Don't drink from your friend's cup... Drink from your own cup
Don't slam the door... Close the door gently
This article shares other reasons on why Positive Language is helpful:
Parenting Alternatives to Saying No
Managing Aggressive Behavior
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Using Positive Language helps guide children more clearly with a deeper understanding and it helps build their vocabulary. Try to limit use of negative language by using other words besides "Don't" and "No."
Instead of saying... SAY
Don't stand on the chair... Chairs are for sitting
Don't throw the sand... Build in the sand
Don't play with the stick... Make patterns in the dirt with the stick
Don't yell... Talk softly
Don't drip on the floor... Put your towel around the paintbrushes
Don't leave your milk... Drink your milk
Don't drink from your friend's cup... Drink from your own cup
Don't slam the door... Close the door gently
This article shares other reasons on why Positive Language is helpful:
Parenting Alternatives to Saying No
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